Love & Relationships

Love, Dating & Relationships

For the lover girls and the skeptics.

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Jamila Pereira

We Moved To Another Country For Love - And Regretted It

Thursday 25 June 2026 8:00 AM

Tabby Kibugi

2026 Is The Year Of Intentional Dating

Friday 8 May 2026 8:00 AM

Whether you're waiting on your fairytale romance (or maybe you've found it already) or you've decided that the only sensible decision for you is "strategic singleness", love and romance dominate most of our popular culture.

What better subject to dissect from every possible angle...

“Don’t let one video of a couple doing up baecation on Twitter rattle you out of all the hard work you’ve done.”

– Why Being Single Shouldn't Ruin Your Christmas

 

 

Esther Evugbemu

“Why We Remarried The Men We Divorced”

Thursday 12 February 2026 8:00 AM

Lisa Tadiwa

Do Married Women Make Bad Friends?

Tuesday 4 November 2025 8:00 AM

Ata-owaji Victor

How Black Women Are Choosing To “Settle Down” In 2024

Friday 21 June 2024 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira

Black Women On What It's Really Like Being A “Trad Wife”

Friday 29 March 2024 8:00 AM

“I’m not saying they need to be perfect, but damn, can I at least get more than the bare minimum on the racial allyship scale?”

– Why White People Have To Pass A Quiz Before Dating Me

 

“My spirit just tek him there and then. I think I fell in love with him from the minute I saw him.”

– Lovers Rock, Gabicci Shirts, and ‘Rubbing Wallpaper’: Black Love Stories From The 70s and 80s

 

 

Shelley Paterson

Rejection Therapy Reset My Brain – And How I Think About Love & Dating

Thursday 27 February 2025 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira

How To Reclaim Your Power After Heartbreak

Wednesday 14 February 2024 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira

What Is Post-Separation Abuse & How Do We Recognise It?

Tuesday 14 November 2023 8:00 AM

“The more we seem to explore our identities and gain confidence, the more enigmatic we appear to black men.”

– Does Black Revolutionary Love Still Exist?

 

Dr Yvon Guest

Why Mixed Race Women Come To See A Therapist Like Me

Tuesday 7 October 2025 1:30 PM

Ifeoluwa Adedeji

How I’m Raising My Mixed Heritage Kids In Italy

Thursday 26 October 2023 8:00 AM

“He asked if he was the first Aussie I had slept with and when I replied yes, he scream-laughed, his words tumbling out: ‘Aw man, I’ve let the side down!’

– The Myth Of The Black Unicorn: Dating As A Black Woman In Australia

 

Juliet Nnaji

Black Women On Sexual Desire, Aging & Freedom

Thursday 30 October 2025 8:00 AM

Raheemat Elewade

How Black Women Regained Their Sex Drive After Child Birth

Thursday 15 May 2025 8:00 AM

Beryn Orera

How Black Disabled Women Have Learnt To Embrace Their Sexuality

Friday 16 February 2024 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira

Sex Magick Is The Next Level To Manifestation

Tuesday 10 October 2023 8:00 AM

Jendella Benson

Oloni On ‘The Big O’ & Forging Her Own Path

Friday 14 October 2022 8:00 AM

“Do feminists shed their liberationist skin to find a life partner?”

– In Our Patriarchal Society, Can Marriage Truly Be A Feminist Choice?