Love & Relationships
Love, Dating & Relationships
For the lover girls and the skeptics.
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Vivian Oluchi
If He Doesn't Buy Me Gifts How Will Others Know I'm Desirable?
Wednesday 2 April 2025 8:00 AM

Black Ballad
BB Members Perk: Black Ballad Book Club Discusses... The Re-Write
Tuesday 4 March 2025 9:00 PM

Shelley Paterson
Rejection Therapy Reset My Brain – And How I Think About Love & Dating
Thursday 27 February 2025 8:00 AM
Whether you're waiting on your fairytale romance (or maybe you've found it already) or you've decided that the only sensible decision for you is "strategic singleness", love and romance dominate most of our popular culture.
What better subject to dissect from every possible angle...

Lamide Kamau
How To Know If You’re Financially Compatible With Your Partner
Friday 7 February 2025 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira
How These Women Learned To Love Only What Loves Them Back
Friday 13 December 2024 8:00 AM


Nadia Mumuni
Worst Date Ever?: “He Took Me To A Friend’s House To Do Laundry”
Thursday 24 October 2024 10:00 AM
“Don’t let one video of a couple doing up baecation on Twitter rattle you out of all the hard work you’ve done.”
– Why Being Single Shouldn't Ruin Your Christmas



Foyin Ejilola
The Women Who Have To Change Their Religion To Get Married
Wednesday 27 March 2024 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira
What Happens When Black Women Earn More Than Their Male Partners?
Tuesday 20 February 2024 8:00 AM

Jendella Benson
Dr Kris Marsh On Studying The Rise Of The Black, Single Middle Class
Tuesday 23 May 2023 8:00 AM

Chloe Sih
In Our Patriarchal Society, Can Marriage Truly Be A Feminist Choice?
Thursday 16 February 2023 8:00 AM
“I’m not saying they need to be perfect, but damn, can I at least get more than the bare minimum on the racial allyship scale?”
– Why White People Have To Pass A Quiz Before Dating Me

Black Ballad
BB Member's Perk: Join Black Ballad For Galentine's Day!
Thursday 30 January 2025 8:00 AM


Muinat Adeyemo
How Getting Dumped Turned Me Into The Woman Of My Dreams
Tuesday 31 December 2019 7:00 AM
“My spirit just tek him there and then. I think I fell in love with him from the minute I saw him.”
– Lovers Rock, Gabicci Shirts, and ‘Rubbing Wallpaper’: Black Love Stories From The 70s and 80s

Jamila Pereira
What Is Post-Separation Abuse & How Do We Recognise It?
Tuesday 14 November 2023 8:00 AM
“The more we seem to explore our identities and gain confidence, the more enigmatic we appear to black men.”
– Does Black Revolutionary Love Still Exist?


“He asked if he was the first Aussie I had slept with and when I replied yes, he scream-laughed, his words tumbling out: ‘Aw man, I’ve let the side down!’
– The Myth Of The Black Unicorn: Dating As A Black Woman In Australia

Jamila Pereira
How Some Black Women Are Finding Liberation Through Kink & BDSM
Thursday 2 May 2024 8:00 AM

Beryn Orera
How Black Disabled Women Have Learnt To Embrace Their Sexuality
Friday 16 February 2024 8:00 AM



Jasmine Lee-Zogbessou
Digital Creator Natalie Lee On Shedding Shame For Sexual Freedom
Friday 10 June 2022 8:00 AM
“Do feminists shed their liberationist skin to find a life partner?”
– In Our Patriarchal Society, Can Marriage Truly Be A Feminist Choice?



Amanda Tayte-Tait
Gaming With My Boyfriend Is Better Than Couple’s Therapy
Thursday 14 December 2023 8:00 AM