Love & Relationships

Love, Dating & Relationships

For the lover girls and the skeptics.

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Whether you're waiting on your fairytale romance (or maybe you've found it already) or you've decided that the only sensible decision for you is "strategic singleness", love and romance dominate most of our popular culture.

What better subject to dissect from every possible angle...

Jamila Pereira

How These Women Learned To Love Only What Loves Them Back

Friday 13 December 2024 8:00 AM

Annissa La Touche

Black Women On Having High Dating Standards

Wednesday 30 October 2024 10:30 AM

“Don’t let one video of a couple doing up baecation on Twitter rattle you out of all the hard work you’ve done.”

– Why Being Single Shouldn't Ruin Your Christmas

 

 

“I’m not saying they need to be perfect, but damn, can I at least get more than the bare minimum on the racial allyship scale?”

– Why White People Have To Pass A Quiz Before Dating Me

 

“My spirit just tek him there and then. I think I fell in love with him from the minute I saw him.”

– Lovers Rock, Gabicci Shirts, and ‘Rubbing Wallpaper’: Black Love Stories From The 70s and 80s

 

 

“The more we seem to explore our identities and gain confidence, the more enigmatic we appear to black men.”

– Does Black Revolutionary Love Still Exist?

 

“He asked if he was the first Aussie I had slept with and when I replied yes, he scream-laughed, his words tumbling out: ‘Aw man, I’ve let the side down!’

– The Myth Of The Black Unicorn: Dating As A Black Woman In Australia

 

Beryn Orera

How Black Disabled Women Have Learnt To Embrace Their Sexuality

Friday 16 February 2024 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira

Sex Magick Is The Next Level To Manifestation

Tuesday 10 October 2023 8:00 AM

Jendella Benson

Oloni On ‘The Big O’ & Forging Her Own Path

Friday 14 October 2022 8:00 AM

Angel Nduka-Nwosu

The Path To Unlearning Sexual Shame Within Marriage

Tuesday 16 August 2022 8:00 AM

Jasmine Lee-Zogbessou

Digital Creator Natalie Lee On Shedding Shame For Sexual Freedom

Friday 10 June 2022 8:00 AM

“Do feminists shed their liberationist skin to find a life partner?”

– In Our Patriarchal Society, Can Marriage Truly Be A Feminist Choice?