Love & Relationships
Love, Dating & Relationships
For the lover girls and the skeptics.
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Tabby Kibugi
The Manosphere Brainwashed My Partner – This Is What I Wish I'd Known
Tuesday 2 June 2026 10:30 AM

Whether you're waiting on your fairytale romance (or maybe you've found it already) or you've decided that the only sensible decision for you is "strategic singleness", love and romance dominate most of our popular culture.
What better subject to dissect from every possible angle...

Tobi Oredein
Founder's Letter: Meg Thee Stallion Deserves Love & Stability
Monday 27 April 2026 1:30 AM

Yemi Dipeolu
The Real Reason You Can’t Stop Thinking About Your Toxic Ex
Thursday 23 April 2026 2:20 PM

Vivian Oluchi
Have You Ever Lied To Make Your Relationship Look Better Than It Is?
Wednesday 1 April 2026 8:00 AM

Esther Evugbemu
The Reality Of Marriage After Being In A Long Distance Relationship
Thursday 15 January 2026 8:00 AM
“Don’t let one video of a couple doing up baecation on Twitter rattle you out of all the hard work you’ve done.”
– Why Being Single Shouldn't Ruin Your Christmas

Esther Evugbemu
When “Staying Together For The Kids” Is The Worst Thing You Could Do
Thursday 5 March 2026 8:00 AM



Lamide Kamau
How To Know If You’re Financially Compatible With Your Partner
Friday 7 February 2025 8:00 AM


“I’m not saying they need to be perfect, but damn, can I at least get more than the bare minimum on the racial allyship scale?”
– Why White People Have To Pass A Quiz Before Dating Me


Ola Awonubi
What Does A 50-Year-Old Black Woman Do When Marriage Doesn’t Come?
Thursday 4 December 2025 8:00 AM


Black Ballad
BB Member's Perk: Join Black Ballad For Galentine's Day!
Thursday 30 January 2025 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira
How These Women Learned To Love Only What Loves Them Back
Friday 13 December 2024 8:00 AM
“My spirit just tek him there and then. I think I fell in love with him from the minute I saw him.”
– Lovers Rock, Gabicci Shirts, and ‘Rubbing Wallpaper’: Black Love Stories From The 70s and 80s

Shelley Paterson
Rejection Therapy Reset My Brain – And How I Think About Love & Dating
Thursday 27 February 2025 8:00 AM


Jamila Pereira
What Is Post-Separation Abuse & How Do We Recognise It?
Tuesday 14 November 2023 8:00 AM
“The more we seem to explore our identities and gain confidence, the more enigmatic we appear to black men.”
– Does Black Revolutionary Love Still Exist?


“He asked if he was the first Aussie I had slept with and when I replied yes, he scream-laughed, his words tumbling out: ‘Aw man, I’ve let the side down!’
– The Myth Of The Black Unicorn: Dating As A Black Woman In Australia


Raheemat Elewade
How Black Women Regained Their Sex Drive After Child Birth
Thursday 15 May 2025 8:00 AM

Jamila Pereira
How Some Black Women Are Finding Liberation Through Kink & BDSM
Thursday 2 May 2024 8:00 AM

Beryn Orera
How Black Disabled Women Have Learnt To Embrace Their Sexuality
Friday 16 February 2024 8:00 AM

“Do feminists shed their liberationist skin to find a life partner?”
– In Our Patriarchal Society, Can Marriage Truly Be A Feminist Choice?

Jamila Pereira
My Mum Survived Domestic Violence & Is Now In Love Again
Wednesday 17 June 2026 8:00 AM



Jamila Pereira
What Happens When Black Women Earn More Than Their Male Partners?
Tuesday 20 February 2024 8:00 AM