The Jungle: Modern Dating As A Black Woman
The Jungle: Modern Dating As A Black Woman
Has dating gotten worse since lockdown or is our tolerance for rubbish just getting less?
Black Ballad’s 2024 Reader Survey revealed that 40% our audience are single and not dating at all. This tracks with general population data from the 2021 Census that shows that more and more women are remaining single, with the adult population of people who have never been married and are not co-habiting increasing.
“The jungle”, “the ghetteaux”, “the streets”, whatever term you use for the dating scene right now, the general sentiment seems to be that it’s a struggle – and if you’re a Black woman who dates men, this struggle seems to be particularly acute… at least that’s what the streets are saying!
For Valentine’s Week 2024, we’ve curated a collection of articles on the dating experiences that many of us are dealing with. Whether you’re trying to dodge Red and Black Pill-ers on the apps, or working your way through heartbreak, hopefully one of our articles will connect with you.
Wherever you are in your journey, this week reminds us that it’s a completely personal one, so embrace yourself in all your delicious complexity first and foremost and secondly…good luck!
The Jungle: Modern Dating As A Black Woman
Nobuhle Nyoni
How Coloured Pills Are Shaping Black Women’s Dating Experiences
Tuesday 13 February 2024 8:00 AM
Beryn Orera
How Black Disabled Women Have Learnt To Embrace Their Sexuality
Friday 16 February 2024 8:00 AM
Keturah Kendrick
Unmarried & Unbothered: Black Women Who Prefer Autonomy Over Marriage
Monday 6 September 2021 10:30 AM
Harmony Knight
Clueless: What I Learned From Dating (A Lot) Of White Boys
Friday 24 September 2021 9:00 AM
Sarah Olowofoyeku
Dating And Family Planning As A Sickle Cell Trait Carrier
Monday 12 April 2021 10:30 AM
Jaydee Seaforth
How Black People With Anxiety Are Navigating The Dating Scene
Monday 23 May 2022 8:00 AM
And if you're tired of centring romance...
Courtney Daniella Boateng & Renée Kapuku
How To De-Centre Romance & Build Lifelong Friendships
Friday 2 February 2024 8:00 AM
T O Oshodi
Is ‘Friendship Dating’ The Answer To Making New Friends As Adults?
Tuesday 25 July 2023 8:00 AM
Henrietta Shirazu
Making New Friends Is Hard, But Here's How I've Done It
Thursday 9 December 2021 10:30 AM