Friends, Family & Community
Friends, Family & Community
Because no black woman is an island.
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Jamila Pereira
How These Women Learned To Love Only What Loves Them Back
Friday 13 December 2024 8:00 AM
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Nobuhle Nyoni
What We Can Learn From The Economic Sisterhood Of Zimbabwean Women
Wednesday 27 November 2024 8:00 AM
As bell hooks writes in All About Love: New Visions, "Communities sustain life – not nuclear families, or the 'couple', and certainly not the rugged individualist." While there is a lot that can be said about the families and communities we come from, the value in healthy, healing and growing bonds with those around us cannot be overstated.
Whether you are creating chosen families, venturing into the world again after suffering a friendship break up or just learning how to navigate changing dynamics within your birth family, Black Ballad has an article just for you.
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“I wanted people to understand and resonate with me; I wanted honest friendships forged by mutual interests, aspirations and desires.”
– How Starting A Black Book Club Helped My Loneliness
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Black Ballad
Watch Skin Rituals – A Short Film About Skincare, Esteem & Motherhood
Friday 7 June 2024 8:00 AM
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“Unity is strength, and it’s important we have black women's organisations now more than ever.”
– Scouse Goddesses: Black Women’s Multigenerational Activism in Liverpool
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Courtney Daniella Boateng & Renée Kapuku
How To De-Centre Romance & Build Lifelong Friendships
Friday 2 February 2024 8:00 AM
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Black Ballad
Black Women Talk Grace, Feeling Seen & "The Color Purple"
Friday 19 January 2024 10:00 AM
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Tobi Oredein
Founder's Letter: Why Don't We Talk About Money In Our Friendships?
Sunday 30 July 2023 11:00 PM
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“No matter what, a Black person is going to benefit, even if it’s only you.”
– Why You Should Smile At Every Black Person You See On These Streets
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“There are some British West Africans, like myself, who have always closely aligned to the ‘other side’. I’ve always had many close friends of Caribbean descent.”
– Will The “Black British” Identity Bring An End To The Diaspora Wars?
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Leah Mahon
These Black Women Moved 100s Of Miles From Home For A Fresh Start
Tuesday 1 October 2024 8:00 AM
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Shalom Esene
Why Black Women Are Opting Out Of Labour This Holiday Season
Tuesday 12 December 2023 8:00 AM
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“Sometimes I would go through long phases where every day felt like a fight, but I guess this is part of character building.”
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Jamila Pereira
The Power Of Storytelling & Community For Queer Black Folx
Tuesday 8 October 2024 8:00 AM
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Tabby Kibugi
The Struggles That Queer Black Women Face When Starting A Family
Wednesday 24 April 2024 8:00 AM
Mary W
BBC 1Xtra's Kaylee Golding Is Our Daytime Darling & Brum-Town Legend
Tuesday 16 April 2024 8:00 AM
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Memuna Konteh
How The Diaspora Can Defend LGBTQ+ Rights In Africa & The Caribbean
Wednesday 13 March 2024 8:00 AM
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Beryn Orera
How Black Disabled Women Have Learnt To Embrace Their Sexuality
Friday 16 February 2024 8:00 AM
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Black Ballad
Navigating The Art World As A Disabled, Queer, Black Artist
Thursday 25 January 2024 8:00 AM
“Parenting coaches and professionals in child behavioural development see no concrete proof that suggests hitting a child is beneficial.”
– How Gentle Parenting Can Stop The Cycle Of Generational Trauma In Black Families
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Tobi Oredein
Founder's Letter: The Importance Of Community & Holding On To Hope
Sunday 11 August 2024 10:41 PM
“I’d like to think I know better, but then I realise I’m still doing the same thing I criticise older generations for.”
– We Need An Honest Conversation About Black Women, Families & Boundaries
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Ayanna Witter-Johnson
How My Holiday To Jamaica Allowed Me To Explore Ancestry & The Ocean
Thursday 2 November 2023 8:30 AM
Sabrina-Maria Anderson
A Spiritual Experience Took This Legend From Lorna Gee To Sutara Gayle
Thursday 7 September 2023 8:00 AM