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“Forgiveness Is Gradual”: What It’s Like When Your Mother Has An Addiction

When the world mourned Whitney Houston, Michael K. Williams and Prince, we grieved collectively. Yet for many, the consequences of substance misuse were already painfully familiar. I have listened to friends describe mothers who would “choose booze over [them] in a blink of an eye”, or the decision made to leave home in order to survive.

Beyond celebrity tragedy lies a harsher domestic reality: “an estimated 2.6 million children in the UK are now living with a parent who drinks too much – many in silence and shame.” Moreover, “200,000 children in England live with an alcohol dependent parent and 1 in 3 children aged 10-17 experience negative consequences as a result of their parents drinking”, reports The Children’s Society.